How To Be “Boyfriend Material”

Women meet men all the time and think he’s cool or attractive. But that doesn’t necessarily mean she’ll want to take things further. Women decide whether a particular guy has potential boyfriend qualities or maybe just a friend. What does it depend on you ask? The way you act around her and what vibes she gets from you.

Most men get friend-zoned because they simply don’t qualify as boyfriend material. It doesn’t mean they don’t like you. It simply means they don’t like you romantically. So here I am to serve you and help you dodge the dreaded friend zone. Take my advice and you will present to women as the dateable one not the one to befriend.

Friend Zone!

Friend Zone!

Dress like you’re trying to impress her

Hanging out with your mates is easy and nobody is really bothered by your attire. But when you are a meeting a women you want to do “unfriendly” things with, you have to make an effort and look like a stud. Your attire is the first thing she notices and she can reject you at first sight.

I’m not saying a relationship is all based on looks, but they play a big role. Women need men to make an effort of men, just like they do. They don’t need you to look like Brad Pitt but look after yourself or make an effort to look as good as you can. If you do not do so, then chances are she is not interested.

Put down the video games and Star Wars action figures

Now don’t boo me already, I am a video game geek and a Star Wars freak. But you might be missing out on some real action if you don’t give your video games a break once in a while. Now let’s all admit video games are not a mature hobby. Women on the other hand like a mature man. If your life revolves around a TV and remote controls, then you can take my world you’ll strike out on the first date. Women too like video games but no decent woman will sign up to watch a guy play games all day long. Some chicks do hang out with a guy and his video games but usually as friends. So it’s your choice buddy. What do you want more?

Learn to be romantic and sweet

Some gestures just never miss. If you can’t shower her with love and romance, you get blocked in the friend zone again. Chances are you will be listening to her talk about her boyfriend or go to the movies with her during the day.

So show the girl you like the softer, caring side of you. They admire that sort of thing. Take her find when you are walking. If she’s cold, the infamous “take off your jacket and give ot to her” gesture never misses. Flirt and compliment her. Make a little physical contact, don’t jump right onto second base. If you act like that around your mates, that’s just plain wierd. But on a date with a girl I like, I don’t hold back the sweet guy within me.

Online Dating Economy

Everybody looking for love and with access to the internet has taken their quest of finding true love to their computer systems. Online dating is not only trending, it has become a necessity. It is estimated to be a £76 million industry in Britain alone and is forecast-ed to go up to £135 million in four years. You will be surprised at how many people have quit looking for love the traditional way.

What’s the point discussing all these numbers, you ask?

This budding industry will provide job opportunities for people looking for careers and is a pretty interesting field to work in. If you have something to offer in terms of skill, then there are thousands if not millions of individuals asking you to take their money to find them a decent date. Imagine the investment that could come in.

How do you think entrepreneur Sarah Beeny started her online dating website “My Single Friend”? She was a matchmaker in her friend circle and now she is matchmaker for the world at large. There are so many online dating websites that you will come across on the internet. Just run a Google search.

People find dates, opportunists find jobs and the economy works its way up; everybody’s happy. Sign up with a the best dating sites today and you might even find your fairy tale romance.

Ways To Impress On Your First Date!

First dates are important; they set the tone and give you a fair idea of where you will go from here. So, I give you 15 ways (not in order of importance) of impressing the girl on the very first date.


1. Choose a different place.

The first date should not be typical and end up becoming boring. Be adventurous, spontaneous and creative. Choose a fun place and show her you are fun to around.

2. Be a gentleman.

Open the door for her and hold her chair. Show her you can treat a woman right.

3. Smile when she talks.

Always listen and take in interest in the conversation.

4. Pay for EVERYTHING.

Even if she offers to pay, get the bill. It is a manly thing to do plus she minds even if she says she doesn’t.

5. Be honest with her.

They can tell when you are lying.

6.  Give her compliments.

Don’t be too cheesy but tell she looks nice. It makes her happy about the effort she put it.

7. Tell funny but non-offensive jokes.

Women love a good sense of humor and this is common knowledge. Take advantage of this.

8. Go in for a kiss at the end of the night.

She’s expecting (and wanting) it.

9. Don’t ask too many questions.

This is not an interview so hold the questions.

10. Display confidence.

Women like a man who is confident and sure of himself.

11. Hold her hand in public.

Women appreciate a man who isn’t afraid to show affection in public.

12. Put your arm around her.

She loves your touch so go ahead and shower her with affection.

13. Keep the conversation interesting.

Come up with interesting things to talk about and don’t bore her. The weather, jobs and ex-girlfriends can all wait.

14. Tease her.

Be playful, it’s adorable and she loves it.

15. Makeout with her.

Like I said, display your affection and don’t hold back.